What is love? A question for a thousand points …. or not? Why would it be? Each of us knows how to love. How do we love? Similarly, but also different. The way we share our feelings and expose them towards people whom we want to send our pozitive energy is in a close relation to the way we want to be perceived by others.
Many experts says that the way you fit in society and the ability to integrate into a particular social group is closely related to childhood, parents and education, the relationship between the child and the parents, the children and teachers, respectively colleagues and school. An introverted child whose environment makes him deeper close into himself, will directly be affected into the adult life.
I started to talk about love and I got to write about children. Although it is hard to believe all these are in close contact. That’s because from childhood we are directly influenced by factors that develop us as adults, formes us as humans. We learn to give and fulfill those desires which characterize us as human beings.
There are many kinds of love. Just as we are all different from each other, unique by definition, and love is the same.
1 – THE LOVE OF A CHILD
What is purely, sweeter and more innocent than the love of a child? Nothing I can say, without a care. A child loves from the heart, without asking why it is so and not vice versa, if you deserve or do not deserve, if he gets something in return for what he gives or not. He loves and gives both. Family harmony and love of parents have the most essential role in the formation of the little man. They are directly responsible for the character of the child as an individual, if he develops harmoniously according to his needs and desires and not by what is required, if will be able to believe in his own strength and ideals or he will be considered a helpless and a misfit of society.
2 – THE LOVE OF PARENTS
An unconditional love. Although we live in the century of speed and even the birth of a child depends on many factors (I would say it is even scheduled by the two parents) the arrival of baby is a matter of an immense and spiritual joy for both parents . With the birth of a new member of the family, all priorities change. The child is the center of attention and all the energy and love of parents reflects on baby.
3 – TEENAGE LOVE
Adolescence, the period of living the great love and great disappointments. Period in which love and dreams are closer than ever, when one without the other make life so morose and blackened, without which hope is also dispel like unsuccessful attempts. Love escalate endless and certainly butterflies from the stomach confirms this writtings. It is an innocent love just because it is the first love and the feeling of endless captivates our thoughts and occupy our minds. If that love fails, if it breaks down, the heart does not want to answer to another love, ask questions that have not answers, dreams are crumbling, and hope seems to have been removed and left us prey to evils and pain. That is why adolescence is a time of great trial and the boundary between childhood and adulthood.
4 –”THE SUPREME” LOVE
Maybe this title will seem funny, but it is best suited. Why? Here’s the answer! Because, no matter how many attempts have failed, ultimately, will appear the person who will make forgotten even the darkest periods of the life. Is love mature? I do not know if love can ever be mature, but it is certainly the love from which we have much higher expectations and more accurate, with which we can not afford to play or fool around, is the love on which we are waiting safety and peace .Is the one that fulfills us as people and make us complete.
There are many ways you express love, the very purpose being to give it. An unrequited love, no matter from what or who, is like a night after that does not appear the morning. So do not forget to love and be happy!