Any woman will tell you that the main reason why you should not rush the first evening is that almost certainly he will not call back the next day. And if the plan is a relationship, then you should try small steps and secure. But in reality, some are major disadvantages of a hasty decision.
If he will call or not, it is not a certainty, but there are many other reasons why this event should not occur with an unknown person. Blogger Jackie Pilossoph synthesized five main ideas “Huffington Post”, which explains many other shortcomings arising from a hasty decision. Author of “Free Gift With Purchase” and creator of the blog Divorced Girl Smiling writes mixed emotions in these situations in an effort to help young women to find a way of thinking.
It is at least strange.
“The first time you have sex with someone, no matter how long you know, the experience can be categorized in two ways: stimulating and exciting, but strange. But it is much less awkward if the person next to you has been around you long enough to know and even feel something for her. Strange sensation disappears when there is the comfort of a known person, and the experience can be wonderful then “writes Jackie Pilossoph.
Waiting is the best foreplay.
“Do have sex on the first date is like eating dessert before dinner. How you can enjoy appetizers, salad and steak when you’ve already eaten the cake? Might you’d like, but not as much as when you allow the relationship to be built, “writes blogger.
It does not go the way you want?
Should be considered and this hypothesis. If do not call you back? If no longer answer the phone the next day, after a night ago, everything seemed perfect? Not fooling anyone, but if you do not want it, you have nothing to submit to this treatment. Nobody wants to be rejected.
Waiting gives you confidence and self esteem.
Men and women who are strong enough to refuse transient occasions and waiting the right moment for it are much better in terms of self-esteem. Think more clearly and objectively and have the certainty regarding the things that make them good or bad. A relationship does not validate the sex. The expectation is mature, sexy and voluptuous.
Sex confuses judgment.
“Let’s be honest. Sex makes you fall in love. And the reason this is not always desirable because you can not be objective. Thus, you come to realize much later, after the chemistry goes, you have nothing in common with that person, “says the writer.